Patrick and Pari’s wedding

Pariyada and I got married at the Manhattan courthouse in January this year, but we just recently had our big wedding celebration with family and friends. Here I’ll share our relationship story which I wrote for our wedding website (with some photos added in) and the readings we chose for our ceremony. Continue reading →

Vault Newsletter, June 2026: Old Notebooks, Lost Ornament, and Four Films

Patrick’s vault only started keeping history on June 14th, so this issue covers about two weeks. Over about a week he pushed a stack of old college notebooks through OCR — ten subjects, photographed page by page and fed to an AI agent — and the content is transcription, with no commentary layered on top. What the archive is for remains open, including to him. Elsewhere: an argument that twentieth-century architecture dropped ornament not because carving got expensive but because it got cheap, four films read for their theology, and progress on a sculpture that will be a custom ornament at his wedding. Continue reading →

The non-tribal tribes

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This post is about tribalism in contemporary Western culture, and specifically it’s about the invisible assortment of people who have self-selected out of it. What the “Grey Tribe” gave up in tribal coordination, they gained in greater freedom to determine their own values and lives. The result is a fresher, more dynamic arena of human activity. I’ve spent a lot of time in some of these quiet cultures, and I want to tell you about them. Continue reading →